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INTERVIEWER 1: Would you know
who John Lennon was?

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LEAH: John.
INTERVIEWER 2: How about Marilyn Monroe?

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ANDREW: Marilyn Monroe.
INTERVIEWER 1: JFK?

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BECKY: Doesn't really
ring any bells.

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(GUITAR PLAYING)

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LEAH: We are the Amish.
You know us,

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as the people who don't drive cars,
who favor log beards,

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and wide brim pats.
And enjoy barn raising.

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But you've almost certainly
never heard of rumspringa.

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(WHIP LASH)

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In our language,
Rumspringa means running around

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and for some,
it's the most critical time of their life.

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Before being baptized
into the Amish Church,

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Rumspringa gives Amish teenagers,
a chance to visit the outside world.

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Trying out activities
that are normally forbidden.

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My name is Leah Miller.
Me and my brother, Andrew,

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and three Amish friends
from the Mid-West of America

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are bidding farewell to our families
and setting off

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on a once in a lifetime adventure
to Great Britain.

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(HARD MUSIC)

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We're going to be living
with four very different types

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of British teenagers.
I've never really met people that

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I had a lot to do with
that we're black.

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Sharing our God fearing
and clean living values.

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JERRY: They don't believe
that Jesus is the son of God.

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They believe in some other guy.
SPEAKER 1: What of she'd meet up

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with another man
and she'd just not wanna come back home?

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SPEAKER 2: It's a worry
of the possibility of being molested.

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BECKY: I read about
extreme activity like this, I guess.

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And I think my family seems far away.
LEAH: I wonder what we'll discover

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and whether the experience
would make us rethink

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our Amish way of life.
LEON: I'm not hoping

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to get way out of hand over there,
but it's pretty much

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my last chance
to do something like that.

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BECKY: Jesus will be coming back
before too long.

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Because of the way
things are going in the world.

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It's just terrible.

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(DISTANT CHATTER)

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SPEAKER 3: Now, it's time to
say goodbye to Andrew

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and Leon for a while.

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And we must always
be mindful to pray for them

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while they're gone.

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(SPIRITUAL MUSIC PLAYS)

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Keep your hands over this group.
and especially over our children,

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as they step forth
into a new venture.

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LEON: I really don't know anything
about England.

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Some people were telling me that
drug were legal.

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Just a little concerned about it.
ANDREW: I will take my German Bible,

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and then my regular study Bible.
And I wanna take this.

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I wanna take this along too.
Being is something I enjoy doing.

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JERRY: Now, here should be
everything I need.

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It feels great to have a passport.
Feels like fredom.

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(SPIRITUAL SONG CONTINUES)

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# Now is the time

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# Redeeming man-kind

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# Take up the cross and (INAUDIBLE) #

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SPEAKER 3: Bye.

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# Suffer the loss

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# Gone is only a few #

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LEAH: None of us,
have ever flown before

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and this will be the first time
we've left our families

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and our home-country of America.
We're about to face the unknown.

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All we can do is put our trust
in God's hands.

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(SPIRITUAL SONG PLAYS)

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# For the spirit of heaven

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# Has lift up your voice to God #

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Everything is really,
really small.

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It's hard to believe
we're this far away from the ground.

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ANDREW: I think it's pretty awesome
out there.

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SPEAKER 3: 1 Peter 5:8,
be sober, be vigilant,

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because your adversary the devil
as a roaring lion,

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waketh about
seeking whom he may devour.

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(BEEP)
AIR HOSTESS: Ladies and gentlemen,

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the Captain has turned on,
the fasten seatbelt sign.

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Please return to your seat
and fasten your seatbelt.

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Thank you.

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LEAH: We're gonna spend seven days
in London.

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It's gonna be our first time
to experience a capital city.

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ANDREW: I bet we're gonna see
a lot of that

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and hear a lot of that.
JERRY: Yeah.

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BECKY: It's gonna be ringing
in our dreams.

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Lots of noise.
ANDREW: Lots of noise, yap.

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BECKY: I'll probably survive for a week
but I wouldn't want to live here.

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LEAH: We'll be staying
with a group of teenagers

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from the South of the City.
We're hoping

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they would show us
what city life is really like.

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(CHATTER)

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There isn't space
for all of us to stay in one house,

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so we're splitting up.
The Amish boys are staying with Ryan.

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RYAN: This is Jerry.
SPEAKER: Hi, Jerry.

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RYAN: This is Leon.
SPEAKER: Hi, Leon.

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RYAN: And this is...
ANDREW: Andrew.

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SPEAKER: (CROSSTALK)
Hi, Andrew.

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LEAH: And us girls
are staying with Sabrina.

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JULIE: I've been tiding up,
especially for you.

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(CROSSTALK)
SPEAKER 4: So really,

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make yourselves at home.
Eat and drink to your heart's content.

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The alcohol is mine though.
(LAUGHTER).

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You can't touch none of that.
JERRY: OK.

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LEAH: We've never seen
such small and cramped houses.

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Back home,
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so we need spacious homes.
We have a communal room,

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were we all eat together,
and a quiet room,

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where we read the Bible.
Sometimes, there's a school room

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for teaching the younger members
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And a washing room
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Our bedrooms are large.
And some of us don't have curtains.

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That's just the way it is.
Our lives are about space and calm.

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JULIE: This is Sabrina's room.
SABRINA: This is my room.

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JULIE: Her little box room,
is only a tiny room.

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BECKY: Really small.
SABRINA: These pictures,

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are from when I used to do modeling
when I was little.

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SPEAKER: OK.
SABRINA: So, there's me

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when I was about nine.
I was about five there.

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This is me and Amy in Paris.
There's Ryan as well.

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BECKY: When he was little.
SABRINA: (CROSSTALK) that's my brother.

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BECKY: So when did you start?
How old were you?

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SABRINA: When I got my first job,
I was three and a half.

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BECKY: Oh, wow.
LEAH: That is cute.

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AMY: In the Amish community
is there any modeling

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that goes on?
LEAH: I don't think,

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I ever heard about people.
BECKY: I guess because the Amish

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(INAUDIBLE) cloth anyway.
So, and they're not like,

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as much into fashion.
Actually they don't follow fashion at all.

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So I guess, it's quite unnecessary.
LEAH: We don't do it.

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BECKY: It's not an Amish thing.

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LEAH: Our new British friends
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a game they call, Rounders
in their local park.

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SABRINA: Do you know
how to play rounders?

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ANDREW: Like ball, (CROSSTALK).

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SABRINA: Becky, you can be with
Ryan and Tunde.

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We're gonna be filled in.
Too low.

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Oh, that was close.
(LAUGHTER)

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LEAH: I've never really met people that
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And then we really got close to them
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personally getting to know them
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and spending a lot of time with them.
But I look forward to doing that.

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I think it's interesting.

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SPEAKER 5: We're doing good guys.

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SABRINA: He's gonna hit it far,
isn't he?

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Oh my God,
you better be ready to run guys.

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Are you craxy?

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Can you even catch?
RYAN: They said (INAUDIBLE) game

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(INAUDIBLE) better than us.
I'm going out first.

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I'm not playing no more.
I'm upset (LAUGHS)

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JERRY: Nice hit.
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quite reserved
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but quite (INAUDIBLE),
quite friendly.

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Yeah, like what they're wearing is like,
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nothing we haven't really
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Obviously, it's not the stylish
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ANDREW: (INAUDIBLE) city people,
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you know, be scared of bugs
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Where country people are used to.
I mean, it's (INAUDIBLE)

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things like that they don't...
they're used to having

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RYAN: For now, they're alright,
they haven't really seen anything.

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So far, we've only been like,
in a park,

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this is probably what they're used to see
a lot of green.

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Probably when we show them
our things that we do,

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is when they might start to get
a bit, "What's that?"

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LEAH: Hear in London,
we're learning about

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British teenage city life.
It's a little different

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to things back home.
Tuks, one of our new British friends,

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wants to show us
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TUKS: Every building here,
have been involved in something.

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We had good times for,
I think, good times lasted

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probably one summer.
After that, the flats began.

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This was our hotspot.
Just near there,

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a friend of mine was stabbed.
She was at the wrong place

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at the wrong time.
I'm not even sure

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how many times she was stabbed
but it was a lot of times.

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And she was killed.
JERRY: I never heard of an Amish person

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doing a crime.
LEAH: A disagreement might come up,

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you know, killing wasn't an option.
JERRY: If they do get,

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even caught just taking
a piece of candy from (INAUDIBLE)

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they'll get taught that

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that's not right.
TUKS: Alright, this was actually,

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I'm not too sure of the destination,
I think it was across that side

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behind this building.
A young man was shot in his head.

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I knew the boy, I knew his mother,
I knew his friends, his family.

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There's alcohols
who live all over the place.

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There's rapists, there's drug addicts,
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BECKY: When I think of my childhood,
I think of sunny days,

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and fields and flowers
and birds nests and,

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because I was very much
an outdoor girl.

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I love to be outside with my dad.
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you saying like, right over there
somebody got stabbed.

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And he was like right over here,
you know, somebody got shot and killed.

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Is really kind of creepy.

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LEAH: In our Amish homes,
we're always working hard.

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Busy doing chores.
But the young people we're staying with,

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pass their time at home
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JERRY: We really haven't done much.
They're playing video games

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but I find that boring.
I'd rather be out doing something

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that's active.
At home, we can go out in the barn,

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and work in the barn,
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Here there is no barn.
RYAN: (INAUDIBLE) the girls

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are saying,
she goes to bed like,

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everyday at 10:30
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Whereas me, I couldn't tell you
what time I go to bed.

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Imma go to bed like,
one day I might go 12:00am

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one day I might go 4:00 in the morning.
Another day

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I might go 9:00 at night, you know.
SPEAKER 7: You know,

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you can sleep in till 12:00,
2:00 in the afternoon.

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But with them,
it's sort of, everyday is a routine,

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routine, routine.
SPEAKER 6: Yeah, they seem to relaxed.

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That's all I can say really.
That's a good word for it, relaxed.

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Chilled out, doing what they want.

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SPEAKER 3: Proverbs 6:9,
how long will thou sleep oh sluggard,

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when will thou arise from thy sleep?

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LEAH: As Amish, we don't really have
free time.

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We start work at the age of three.
Or sometimes, earlier.

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If children are taught
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and have responsibilities
and choice when they're growing up,

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a lot of them kind of adapt
to working.

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JERRY: I think work is a great way
to keep kids busy,

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entertained, and out of trouble.

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LEAH: We're busy in the fields,
in the house, the gardens and the barn.

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Every Amish family has a barn.
Once we've left school at 14,

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our work routine starts
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and ends when it goes down.

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Ever since as Amish
fled persecution in Switzerland

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in the 17th century
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work has been an important part
of our lives.

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It enables us to be
as self-sufficient as possible

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and to live separate from the world.
BECKY: I think it gives you

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a sense of security

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because you don't have
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LEAH: But it's also part of our faith.
SPEAKER 3: Matthew 11:28,

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come on to me all ye that labor
and are heavy laden,

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and I will give you rest.

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SABRINA: Have you been on the tube before?
BECKY: No.

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SABRINA: Have you been on
a train before like an overglance.

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BECKY: No.
SABRINA: (INAUDIBLE) like the train,

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overground.
The tube is basically underground,

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so you can't see outside the window.
There's all black.

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LEAH: (INAUDIBLE)
SABRINA: Yeah,

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basically, you're going through a tunnel
on the train.

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TUNDE: It's a bit chilly down here, boy.
BARAH: It's windy here.

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SABRINA: It's windy.
LEAH: Where does it come from?

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SABRINA: I don't know.

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SPEAKER: Train (INAUDIBLE)
on the door please, on the door.

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(CHATTER)

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BECKY: I notice that about
one out of three had headsets on.

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Isolating themselves.
It's kind of amazing how,

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you can be in such a big crowd
and be totally isolated.

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LEAH: Now, a lot of people just have
like a straight stare,

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they know where they're going,
everybody's moving.

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You see hundrens of thousands of people
one day.

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You don't really get to know anyone.

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BECKY: You're never this close
to vehicles in America?

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JERRY: I know.
BECKY: Crazy.

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JERRY: (INAUDIBLE) suck
trying to get a word

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to describe.
When I go to work, Angus,

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go, know what's in the way.

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SPEAKER 3: Mathrew 26:41.

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Watch and pray
that you enter not into temptation.

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The spirit indeed is willing,
but the flesh is weak.

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BARAH: There's a lot of sex shops,
there's (INAUDIBLE) shops like...

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BECKY: Sex shop,
I've never heard of that.

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BARAH: You can go,
sort of, underware

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and toys, things,
but not nice things.

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SPEAKER 7: Cause they want to know
about Soho (INAUDIBLE).

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TUNDE: What do you think of it?
BECKY: Creepy.

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TUNDE: It's creepy.
BECKY: And it seems very...

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The devil's territory.
TUNDE: Serious?

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LEAH: We've never seen anything like this.
It's hard to understand

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how people can be so open
about something, which is so sinful.

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SABRINA: If you did have a boyfriend,
you'd be able to have physical contact

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with him then.
Or would it just be, unless you know,

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you're going to get married him.
BECKY: Well, I wouldn't want to

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ruin (INAUDIBLE) until we get married.
SABRINA: Yeah.

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BECKY: My first kiss would be (INAUDIBLE).
SABRINA: OK.

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I actually agree.
BECKY: Yeah.

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SABRINA: But it's just like
the way of living here,

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It's just a bit...
BECKY: It's so...

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SABRINA: It's a bit more laid back.
BECKY: Like do you have sexual relations

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with the person you're dating?
TUNDE: What, before the marriage?

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BECKY: Yeah.
TUNDE: (INAUDIBLE)

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LEAH: For us, Amish,
we keep mixing between the sexes

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to a minimum.
We worked separately.

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Men doing the men's jobs,
the women doing the women's.

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JERRY: I think the wife
should stay at home,

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take care of the kids,
do the housework.

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BECKY: The woman is supposed
to reverence her husband.

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JERRY: I think every man wants a wife
that respects him

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and wants to do what he wants her to do.
BECKY: It's not because

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your husband deserves it,
it's because you're honoring God

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and it's his design,
and it's wonderful.

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LEAH: Sometimes we get together
to play a game of volleyball.

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It's at times like these,
the boys might ask the girl on a date.

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BECKY: I would imagine,
I would probably be nervous,

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on my first date.
I guess it would depend on

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if I knew the guy a lot, I don't know.
I don't imagine,

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I'd probably be nervous.
(INAUDIBLE) know, maybe I wouldn't.

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LEAH: Some Amish groups practice bundling.
The tradition of going to bed

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fully clothed with your date.
But sexual intercourse is forbidden.

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Others practice the hands-off rule.
No touching or kissing

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until you're married.
We like to keep all temptations at Bay.

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I think basically,
everyone's probably tempted

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with impure thoughts.
And I have often heard the expression that

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you can't help.
if a bird sits on your head,

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which you can't help,
what thoughts come into your mind.

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But then it goes on to say,
but you can help it,

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if the bird's making a nest
on the top of your head.

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For us, marital union
is considered most sacred.

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In Sabrina's house,
there is no father at home.

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Her mom, Julie,
has brought up the children single-handed.

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BECKY: Were your children very small
when you became a single mom.

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JULIE: There wasn't that young.
They were about four or five.

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BECKY: Would you say you preferred that
to being married?

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JULIE: Yeah. I mean,
when you're on your own,

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you don't get hassles.
I'll go clubbing with my friends.

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You might call it a disco.
It's where you dance.

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So I just go out and like the music
and dance. yeah.

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BECKY: Like do (INAUDIBLE) Sabrina
does she ever see her dad?

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JULIE: Yeah, they see their dad.
That's fine.

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There's no problem there.
We've always got on really well.

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BECKY: But what do you
think about divorce?

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JULIE: This is why I think
I haven't been married yet,

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is because when I meet someone,
I want to make sure they're faithful.

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BECKY: So why aren't you married?
JULIE: Sorry.

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BECKY: You weren't re-married?
JULIE: No.

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BECKY: Oh, OK.
JULIE: As I've said,

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I won't until I'm at 100% sure.
BECKY: I didn't realize that.

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Sorry.
JULIE: It's nothing.

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BECKY: Galatians 5:19
and now the works that the flesh

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are manifest, which are these,
adultery, fornication, uncleanness,

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lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft,
hatred, variance,

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emulations, wrath, strife,

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that they, which do such things
shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

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Maybe those people don't really know
what it is to have

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a pure adult-like teenage life,
like before you get married.

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And I don't, I think, I definitely think
it's worth it.

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It's worth not getting involved
in sexual relations

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before you're married.

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I don't know, it just makes me
really sad.

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LEAH: Our new group of friends

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want to show us what they're most into.
They tell us it's something

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they do for fun,
but it's also a big part of their lives.

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RYAN: You (INAUDIBLE).

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Come let's go, let's go, let's go,
let's get ready.

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Are you sitting there,
come let's get up.

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Let's get ready,
let's get ready to dance.

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We're dancing, Yemi.

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(HIP HOP BEATS PLAYING)

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LEAH: Most Amish, don't listen to music
or dance unless it glorifies God.

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And we certainly
never do anything on show.

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To do so revealed a lack of humility
and pride is a Cardinal sin.

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SABRINA: You look a bit shocked,
all of you.

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(CROSSTALK).
RYAN: It's probably not the same

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as what you are used to.
You know,(INAUDIBLE)

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seen or heard of any type of dance.
(CROSSTALK).

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SABRINA: Did you like it?
BECKY: I don't know.

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(INAUDIBLE) have to decide yet.
LEAH: I don't think, I've ever seen

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people dancing like that
to some music.

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ANDREW: I don't associate
with people like this, you know,

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that much.
So it's like, a new thing for me

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and not too sure about it all.

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(SPEAKS FOREIGN LANGUAGE)

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LEAH: The kids we're staying with
have just been showing us,

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their street dance
with the pumping music,

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and jerky movements.
It couldn't be further

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from our slow paced,
Amish way of life.

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BECKY: I was really curious,
what made you start this group.

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TUKS: Well, passing it to me,
obviously, it's made a big difference

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in my life, a big difference.
I used to just, hang around

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on the block with my friends.
But now, obviously,

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I have something to do.
Before, I was just,

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I used to squeeze my time.
I was quite a bad kid

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but obviously when I started dancing,
like, my mind just went elsewhere.

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I think if I wasn't dancing,
I don't think,

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I'd be where I am with my education,
jobwise, with my family,

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I think I'll probably would have been
kicked out by my house by now.

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Dance has actually,
made the biggest difference in my life.

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It saved me.
(LAUGHTER)

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BECKY: It seems kind of like,
I don't know, a noble thing to do

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to, you know, just keep out of trouble,
like he's.

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I'm impressed.
(LAUGHTER)

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I was wondering if it makes you
a little tired?

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SABRINA: You see us after.
(LAUGHTER).

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Is it like, oh my gosh,
that is so hot.

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LEAH: At the end of the week,
our friends are performing

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at the memorial of Tuks'
14-year-old friend, David,

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who got killed last year in the park,
opposite his home.

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Tuks is keen that we meet David's mom,
before the gathering.

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GRACE: Hello everyone.
Please to meet you, everyone.

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You look so lovely.
Please to meet you, darling.

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LEAH: I'm Leah.
GRACE: OK, what's the name?

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BECKY: Becky.
GRACE: Becky.

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Come inside, yes.
Have you a seat.

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BECKY: Is that a family picture
of like your boys?

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GRACE: Yes.
That's Frank.

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Yeah, this is David.
That's him.

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If I could ask you this,
is there any violence in your community?

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LEON: I don't think so, no.
GRACE: OK.

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LEAH: Not at all.
JERRY: I've never heard of it,

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in our town.
GRACE: Good.

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BECKY: Like one Amish man
wouldn't do that to another.

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LEAH: In Amish communities,
there is no crime.

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Our upbringing is strict.
We are brought up to value our community,

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to love our neighbor and our enemy.
We don't believe in violence,

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war or confrontation.
SPEAKER 3: Proverbs 15:1,

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a soft answer, turneth away wrath,
but grievous words stir up anger.

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GRACE: What happened last year
was a shock,

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for I and my family.
It was a big shock.

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He left for the school that day.
He had his breakfast and he left.

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He came back from school.
He went to the park.

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They're a group of boys,
like 12, 12 of them.

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And this one that stab him,
he just went to him, straight away

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and just stab him.
There's no confrontation,

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like fighting, like argue or anything.
It's 20 seconds he has been there,

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and run back, quick.
It's 20 seconds.

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That 20 second, the damage had been done.
The knife went deep,

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very deep into his heart.
About 9cm deep into his heart.

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David was taken to the hospital
but a ambulance.

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And he was there for 20 days.
BECKY: 20 days.

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GRACE: Yes, and he struggle a lot.
You see, that boy is a fighter.

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He struggled to survive.
He struggled for his life to survive.

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But unfortunately,
the knife have done a great damage

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in his body.
So, that was how we lost David.

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So, it's such a great loss
but my believe is that,

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I'm going to see my boy again.
That is it.

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That is what keeps me going
because I'm going to see him again.

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JERRY: It's pretty sad that
such a young life was taken.

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Hopefully, we can...
it helped her pass her day well,

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since we were with her.
LEAH: Like us, our London friends,

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believe David will go to heaven.
They are Christians too.

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Well, not all the group.
Bahar's family is Muslim.

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She wants to show us,
how the Muslims worship.

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BECKY: If you believe in other gods,
other than Jesus,

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those are all a trick by the devil.
There is only one God.

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SPEAKER 3: Proverbs 1,
my son if sinners entice thee,

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consent thy not.
Walk thy not thou in the way with them.

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Refrain thy foot from their path.
LEAH: Back home,

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we're all God-fearing Christians,
and we've never experienced the faith

438
00:30:11,688 --> 00:30:16,435
other than our own.
BECKY: What are they bowing down to?

439
00:30:16,749 --> 00:30:21,572
BAHAR: Allah, God.
LEAH: Do they pray anywhere else?

440
00:30:22,543 --> 00:30:26,896
BAHAR: In their houses, they pray.
JERRY: Why are their only men here?

441
00:30:28,130 --> 00:30:30,500
BAHAR: The men and women
can't pray together.

442
00:30:31,184 --> 00:30:33,787
JERRY: Are people praying here
all day long?

443
00:30:34,744 --> 00:30:38,799
BAHAR: No, there's set time.
They pray five times a day.

444
00:30:41,424 --> 00:30:43,079
SPEAKER 8: The First Mosque,
we believe in the world,

445
00:30:43,079 --> 00:30:47,279
was created by Abraham, in Mecca.
And this is where Mohammed,

446
00:30:47,279 --> 00:30:50,420
Peace be upon Him, was born.
The directions of all the Mosques,

447
00:30:50,667 --> 00:30:53,296
is towards Mecca.
So, we pray in the direction of Mecca.

448
00:30:53,994 --> 00:30:56,281
Mecca is in the Middle-East,
in Saudi Arabia.

449
00:30:56,566 --> 00:30:59,353
There's a place called Mecca.
LEAH: Is it towards the East?

450
00:30:59,353 --> 00:31:01,982
SPEAKER 8: Towards the East.
And we believe, all prophets

451
00:31:01,982 --> 00:31:04,216
were normal human beings,
they were men.

452
00:31:04,216 --> 00:31:05,986
BECKY: So, you don't believe
that Jesus was God.

453
00:31:05,986 --> 00:31:08,685
SPEAKER: We believe he was a prophet.
That Jesus was a prophet

454
00:31:08,685 --> 00:31:11,262
like all other prophets.
We believe that

455
00:31:11,262 --> 00:31:13,063
he did not die on the cross.

456
00:31:19,139 --> 00:31:23,561
BECKY: Do you think that,
he's different form the God that

457
00:31:23,864 --> 00:31:25,896
Christians believe in?
SPEAKER 8: No, we believe

458
00:31:25,896 --> 00:31:28,817
there's only one God.
We believe there's only one God.

459
00:31:29,037 --> 00:31:31,550
And it's just people have different names
for Him,

460
00:31:31,550 --> 00:31:34,038
and people have different ways
of worshiping Him.

461
00:31:34,038 --> 00:31:37,436
BECKY: It was very interesting to learn
about the way Muslims...

462
00:31:40,628 --> 00:31:43,411
about their beliefs and everything.
I'm glad we went,

463
00:31:43,732 --> 00:31:47,773
just to observe and to see.
But it was the first time,

464
00:31:47,773 --> 00:31:51,862
I talked to either like
a Muslim or anybody

465
00:31:51,862 --> 00:31:56,510
that has a different faith.
I kind of just thought about

466
00:31:56,510 --> 00:32:00,727
like why are there
so many different religions,

467
00:32:00,991 --> 00:32:02,955
so many different faiths
in the world.

468
00:32:03,285 --> 00:32:06,004
I mean, how do people know
which is the right one?

469
00:32:07,438 --> 00:32:10,086
JERRY: We found out
what kind of a religion they have.

470
00:32:11,043 --> 00:32:15,189
It's not unlike ours,
except they don't believe

471
00:32:15,189 --> 00:32:21,011
that Jesus is the son of God.
They believe in some other guy.

472
00:32:22,222 --> 00:32:26,460
There is a lot of similarities.
It was interesting

473
00:32:26,460 --> 00:32:29,948
and kind of cool, I think.
LEAH: For Jerry,

474
00:32:30,179 --> 00:32:32,568
looking at another faith
and set of values,

475
00:32:32,740 --> 00:32:36,304
is the reminder of the crucial
life decisions, he needs to make.

476
00:32:39,766 --> 00:32:43,627
Like many Amish teenagers,
Jerry is on, what's called Rumspringa

477
00:32:44,001 --> 00:32:47,340
or a running around period.
Only some Amish groups

478
00:32:47,541 --> 00:32:51,305
acknowledge this window of opportunity.
And for those that do,

479
00:32:51,667 --> 00:32:54,461
their 16th birthday
is an exciting landmark.

480
00:32:55,590 --> 00:32:59,995
JERRY: Alright, boys, let's go.
LEAH: For the first time in their lives,

481
00:32:59,995 --> 00:33:02,021
they're allowed to go
and explore the world

482
00:33:02,021 --> 00:33:05,317
outside their Amish community.
This can mean anything

483
00:33:05,780 --> 00:33:08,694
from giving up their Amish clothes,
their horse and bodice,

484
00:33:09,044 --> 00:33:11,444
and doing things
that other teenagers do.

485
00:33:12,064 --> 00:33:16,005
Like driving a car,
using electricity and watching TV

486
00:33:16,328 --> 00:33:20,095
to really letting their hair down,
drinking alcohol and smoking

487
00:33:20,095 --> 00:33:24,142
with non-Amish friends.
Jerry is 23.

488
00:33:24,580 --> 00:33:27,513
He's been enjoying, running around now
for a long time,

489
00:33:28,067 --> 00:33:32,054
but he needs to make up his mind,
whether to give up the modern world,

490
00:33:32,484 --> 00:33:36,597
be baptized and become Amish
for the rest of his life or not.

491
00:33:37,386 --> 00:33:39,856
It's a torturous decision
for him to make.

492
00:33:43,049 --> 00:33:46,949
BAHAR: What happens like
when you decide to finish?

493
00:33:48,565 --> 00:33:50,743
JERRY: Once if I go back
to the Amish?

494
00:33:50,743 --> 00:33:52,755
BAHAR: Yeah.
JERRY: Then I have to like,

495
00:33:53,599 --> 00:33:58,656
sell my car, sell my TV, radio, phone,
everything.

496
00:33:58,964 --> 00:34:00,993
BAHAR: Does that mean,
thinking of like,

497
00:34:01,291 --> 00:34:04,740
become a Sheik Muslim.
There's a lot of things in my life,

498
00:34:04,740 --> 00:34:11,599
like my modern name,
dancing, like going out,

499
00:34:11,886 --> 00:34:15,223
I'll have to stop all of that.
JERRY: So, you're kind of like me,

500
00:34:15,223 --> 00:34:18,278
right now.
You're having your Rumspringa.

501
00:34:19,262 --> 00:34:23,947
Do you feel like you should do that?
You feel, that's what you want.

502
00:34:24,185 --> 00:34:26,067
BAHAR: I really want to.
JERRY: You really want to

503
00:34:26,067 --> 00:34:28,963
but you're afraid, you can't.
BAHAR: Yeah, that's the one.

504
00:34:28,963 --> 00:34:31,910
JERRY: Life isn't easy, is it?
BAHAR: No, not at all.

505
00:34:37,405 --> 00:34:40,019
SABRINA: Know this, that thing on...
What's that called?

506
00:34:40,728 --> 00:34:42,839
LEAH: We call it at home,
we call it a cap.

507
00:34:42,839 --> 00:34:45,058
SABRINA: A cap.
LEAH: (INAUDIBLE)

508
00:34:45,058 --> 00:34:46,642
SABRINA: Cover what?
LEAH: Covering.

509
00:34:46,642 --> 00:34:48,581
SABRINA: And what do you
wear that for?

510
00:34:49,018 --> 00:34:52,338
LEAH: The Bible, it talks about
the women, you know, being covered.

511
00:34:52,338 --> 00:34:55,057
SABRINA: Aliright, OK.
LEAH: It's like a symbol of submission.

512
00:34:55,057 --> 00:34:57,178
SABRINA: OK.
How long is your hair then?

513
00:34:58,368 --> 00:35:00,831
BAHAR: It's really long.
SABRINA: Wow, it's down there.

514
00:35:00,831 --> 00:35:02,900
LEAH: Yeah.
SABRINA: Wow, that is long.

515
00:35:02,900 --> 00:35:05,159
LEAH: We don't cut our hair.
SABRINA: Oh, you don't cut it.

516
00:35:05,929 --> 00:35:08,453
'Cause we cut out hair, all the time
as you can see.

517
00:35:08,703 --> 00:35:10,925
Would you ever dye your hair
a different color?

518
00:35:10,925 --> 00:35:13,580
I never wished for a different color
of hair, really.

519
00:35:26,996 --> 00:35:29,240
BECKY: So gross.
(GIGGLES)

520
00:35:29,879 --> 00:35:32,341
BAHAR: Looks like witches hands.
BECKY: Looks like claws.

521
00:35:32,341 --> 00:35:35,534
LEAH: Like claws or something.
BECKY: It smells really bad in hear.

522
00:35:38,759 --> 00:35:41,763
Why would you come in here
and get stuff on your nails?

523
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:45,026
SABRINA: I wanna get it done
because I like the way it looks.

524
00:35:45,026 --> 00:35:49,276
Normally, I'd get white (INAUDIBLE),
but I decided to get black.

525
00:35:50,175 --> 00:35:53,492
When I first got it done,
couldn't do that, (INAUDIBLE).

526
00:35:55,847 --> 00:35:58,150
BECKY: Another thing,
you couldn't milk a cow.

527
00:35:58,728 --> 00:36:00,225
LEAH: It would kick you.

528
00:36:04,506 --> 00:36:06,627
BECKY: Like how much
would you normally spend?

529
00:36:06,627 --> 00:36:09,157
SABRINA: Getting my nails done
cost 20GBP.

530
00:36:09,157 --> 00:36:12,294
And hair cost way more than that.
80 GBP.

531
00:36:12,726 --> 00:36:14,184
BECKY: 80 GBP?
SABRINA: 80.

532
00:36:14,997 --> 00:36:16,531
LEAH: How much?
BECKY: 80 GBP.

533
00:36:18,269 --> 00:36:24,707
(CROSSTALK) $120.
in the US.

534
00:36:26,148 --> 00:36:27,760
SABRINA: Yeah.
LEAH: That's crazy.

535
00:36:28,739 --> 00:36:33,311
LEAH: I think long nails
are pretty impractical as well.

536
00:36:33,919 --> 00:36:36,951
I wouldn't want a boy
to notice my beautiful heart,

537
00:36:36,951 --> 00:36:40,980
instead of going on outward appearance.
It wouldn't be

538
00:36:40,980 --> 00:36:44,642
a very good foundation
to start a marriage relationship.

539
00:36:45,723 --> 00:36:50,719
SPEAKER 3: 1 Peter 3:3,
let it not be that outward adorning,

540
00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:53,647
of plating the hair,
and of wearing of gold,

541
00:36:53,934 --> 00:36:55,680
or of putting on of apparel.

542
00:36:56,380 --> 00:37:01,935
(SPIRITUAL SONGS)

543
00:37:01,935 --> 00:37:04,566
LEAH: Amish girls are not into makeup
or jewelery.

544
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,404
We don't pain our nails
or cut our hair.

545
00:37:07,982 --> 00:37:10,799
We believe the way God made us
is the way we should be.

546
00:37:11,787 --> 00:37:15,375
ANDREW: I guess if I see a girl,
I look at her character,

547
00:37:15,375 --> 00:37:17,336
just because she's beautiful
on the outside,

548
00:37:17,336 --> 00:37:19,067
doesn't mean she's beautiful
on the inside.

549
00:37:19,881 --> 00:37:22,539
LEAH: Our fashion is to part our hair
in the middle

550
00:37:22,539 --> 00:37:26,376
and comb it back over our heads.
And on formal occasions,

551
00:37:26,641 --> 00:37:30,333
to cover it with a homemade barnet.
We're not concerned

552
00:37:30,333 --> 00:37:32,960
about accumulating material things
for our happiness.

553
00:37:33,557 --> 00:37:37,019
Basically because I understand
my life is, you know, short.

554
00:37:37,252 --> 00:37:39,730
It's going to be like a vapor
amongst all the lives

555
00:37:39,730 --> 00:37:43,810
that are on the earth.
I don't think I'm attached

556
00:37:43,810 --> 00:37:45,062
too much on earth.

557
00:37:47,282 --> 00:37:52,196
We don't spend time shopping for clothes.
Instead, we make everything by hand.

558
00:38:02,043 --> 00:38:04,203
And you just touch your finger
with the needle.

559
00:38:04,203 --> 00:38:05,888
You don't prick it or anything.
You just touch it

560
00:38:05,888 --> 00:38:08,966
so you can feel that it's through.
Do you think you would like

561
00:38:08,966 --> 00:38:12,031
that kind of thing?
BAHAR: If I was good at it,

562
00:38:12,031 --> 00:38:16,198
I would probably (CROSSTALK).
SABRINA: Am I going to this one?

563
00:38:16,198 --> 00:38:18,758
LEAH: Yeah, and then
you just connect those two.

564
00:38:18,758 --> 00:38:21,581
SABRINA: Are there like,
not proper goes, that sounds bad,

565
00:38:22,425 --> 00:38:24,109
but they are.
BARAH: Yeah.

566
00:38:24,485 --> 00:38:27,011
SABRINA: Like the traditional girls.
(CROSSTALK) traditional girls.

567
00:38:27,290 --> 00:38:29,773
BARAH: If I could do it,
I probably would actually just sit there

568
00:38:29,773 --> 00:38:33,145
and try and do something.
SABRINA: Cause that could be

569
00:38:33,145 --> 00:38:35,809
quite (INAUDIBLE).
But I would prefer to do,

570
00:38:35,809 --> 00:38:36,886
make a quilt.

571
00:38:37,801 --> 00:38:42,148
# Oh fest, oh fest

572
00:38:42,529 --> 00:38:44,982
# To the rip

573
00:38:44,982 --> 00:38:47,617
# To the rip. #

574
00:38:47,945 --> 00:38:49,982
I love the singing.
And it did remind me

575
00:38:49,982 --> 00:38:53,650
of (INAUDIBLE) films.
Like where a dog would be running

576
00:38:53,650 --> 00:38:57,616
from the fields.
And they'll be at home,

577
00:38:58,130 --> 00:39:00,836
like with their little black children
running around,

578
00:39:01,098 --> 00:39:03,399
and then like, the mom would be
in the corner

579
00:39:03,399 --> 00:39:05,900
on a rocking chair.
And you could Leah like,

580
00:39:05,900 --> 00:39:08,384
she enjoys it.
BARAH: Yeah.

581
00:39:09,114 --> 00:39:11,487
Nothing that they do
is chore for them.

582
00:39:11,487 --> 00:39:13,796
Everything's just (CROSSTALK).

583
00:39:15,589 --> 00:39:17,773
# That you learn

584
00:39:17,773 --> 00:39:22,747
# From your mother at home. #

585
00:39:24,583 --> 00:39:26,483
That's really nice.
SABRINA: Nice, so nice.

586
00:39:26,483 --> 00:39:29,183
BARAH: Yeah, it's so relaxing.
SABRINA: Yeah, definitely.

587
00:39:30,487 --> 00:39:33,172
LEAH: While the girls have been having
a quiet time in,

588
00:39:33,411 --> 00:39:36,254
the Amish boys have been learning
how to stay in shape.

589
00:39:37,203 --> 00:39:40,087
SPEAKER: (UNKNOWN),
open your legs wider, wider.

590
00:39:41,670 --> 00:39:44,547
(LAUGHTER)
Try and touch your toes.

591
00:39:44,756 --> 00:39:47,496
With your legs, straight.
Stay there, stay there.

592
00:39:49,634 --> 00:39:50,890
Leon, what's wrong?

593
00:39:58,574 --> 00:40:01,189
I'm sure you can get (INAUDIBLE).
That was high.

594
00:40:06,272 --> 00:40:07,304
RYAN: Yeah, do you wanna take
your jumper off,

595
00:40:07,304 --> 00:40:09,111
have you got something underneath?
JERRY: Yeah.

596
00:40:09,111 --> 00:40:10,812
SPEAKER: Actually, leave it on
just in case you drop.

597
00:40:10,812 --> 00:40:12,016
(LAUGHTER)

598
00:40:12,284 --> 00:40:14,315
Just land on your back
and you'll be fine.

599
00:40:20,488 --> 00:40:22,252
ANDREW: I think the dance group
is great.

600
00:40:22,252 --> 00:40:25,250
I've been getting along great
with all of them, pretty much.

601
00:40:25,250 --> 00:40:27,510
The first of the week,
it was kind of awkward.

602
00:40:27,510 --> 00:40:30,486
And we're just now at the stage that
we're really getting to know them.

603
00:40:30,486 --> 00:40:33,097
We can have a blast.

604
00:40:38,669 --> 00:40:41,786
SPEAKER 8: I've noticed that the Amish,
are very positive people.

605
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,117
They always have a smile
on their face.

606
00:40:44,117 --> 00:40:46,010
But even in London,
we're not open

607
00:40:46,010 --> 00:40:48,663
to try anything new.
We like to do what we know.

608
00:40:48,663 --> 00:40:51,568
But I think they like to
just give anything a try.

609
00:40:58,699 --> 00:41:00,848
BECKY: It's definitely
a different experience

610
00:41:01,390 --> 00:41:04,832
to live in the city.
I'm not the type of person

611
00:41:04,832 --> 00:41:08,089
that will want to live in the city.
But I still admire

612
00:41:08,479 --> 00:41:11,427
the family we're staying with.
'Cause they seem to be content

613
00:41:11,427 --> 00:41:14,904
even if they have a small house.
I guess it teaches me,

614
00:41:14,904 --> 00:41:18,059
not to take for granted, what we have
back at home.

615
00:41:19,219 --> 00:41:22,299
LEAH: The houses are really small
and tiny.

616
00:41:22,847 --> 00:41:24,544
And they might not have
all the space

617
00:41:24,544 --> 00:41:27,513
that they wish for.
I'm inspired

618
00:41:27,513 --> 00:41:32,438
and I think I can learn from them,
to appreciate what I have,

619
00:41:33,387 --> 00:41:36,363
and make the best of it
and enjoy life, anyway.

620
00:41:38,258 --> 00:41:45,409
So, it's been a good week so far
and I've enjoyed my time

621
00:41:45,409 --> 00:41:46,693
with these people.

622
00:41:52,132 --> 00:41:56,080
Today is the memorial service
for Tuks' friend, David Idowu.

623
00:41:56,828 --> 00:42:00,297
Grace, David's mother,
is holding this community gathering,

624
00:42:00,468 --> 00:42:03,553
in the park where David was killed.
To send out a message

625
00:42:03,553 --> 00:42:09,038
that street crime has to end.
As Amish, we've never experienced anything

626
00:42:09,038 --> 00:42:11,454
like this before.
PASTOR: We pray also again,

627
00:42:11,454 --> 00:42:13,983
that the memory of David,
will continue to live,

628
00:42:13,983 --> 00:42:15,980
in the name of Jesus.
CONGREGATION: Amen.

629
00:42:15,980 --> 00:42:18,204
LEAH: But we want to do
what we can to help.

630
00:42:20,182 --> 00:42:23,916
GRAE: Last year, I lost my boy.
14-year-old boy.

631
00:42:24,212 --> 00:42:27,413
Coming to this park,
just to come and play with his friend.

632
00:42:28,109 --> 00:42:32,579
Knife crime is destroying family.
is destroying the whole community.

633
00:42:33,050 --> 00:42:36,421
We need to come together
to join hands together.

634
00:42:36,690 --> 00:42:39,747
JERRY: I think it's a good thing
like something like this does happen

635
00:42:39,747 --> 00:42:42,011
that people get together
and try to stop it.

636
00:42:42,011 --> 00:42:45,143
I think that's great.
The Amish don't come together

637
00:42:45,143 --> 00:42:47,926
to try to change everybody,
anybody's opinion

638
00:42:47,926 --> 00:42:51,957
because everybody's
like kind of lives the same.

639
00:42:52,242 --> 00:42:55,827
They have the same rules,
and everybody goes by those rules.

640
00:42:55,975 --> 00:43:01,691
So, everybody is kinda thinks alike.
Being in the city made me realize,

641
00:43:02,008 --> 00:43:04,581
a little bit about
how good it is to be Amish,

642
00:43:04,581 --> 00:43:08,952
and know that you're actually safe
and don't have to worry

643
00:43:08,952 --> 00:43:11,089
about being robbed
or anything like that.

644
00:43:13,951 --> 00:43:16,605
LEAH: Our street dance friends
have agreed to perform.

645
00:43:16,605 --> 00:43:19,291
And knowing how we like to sing,
they've suggested,

646
00:43:19,291 --> 00:43:21,279
we might get up on stage
and join in.

647
00:43:21,860 --> 00:43:24,862
As humble, slow-pace people,
being on show

648
00:43:24,862 --> 00:43:28,259
is something we never normally do.
This is our first time

649
00:43:28,472 --> 00:43:29,919
to perform on stage.

650
00:43:33,152 --> 00:43:36,538
# Let's come together

651
00:43:39,225 --> 00:43:44,066
# Let's live as one

652
00:43:45,620 --> 00:43:50,055
# Let's stay together

653
00:43:51,620 --> 00:43:56,254
# And mean that we can save a life #

654
00:43:56,698 --> 00:43:59,484
BECKY: I had sang in a choir
a couple of times before

655
00:43:59,484 --> 00:44:02,254
but this was quite a new experience
for me to sing

656
00:44:02,599 --> 00:44:05,561
in front of a crowd.
I was very nervous

657
00:44:05,561 --> 00:44:08,921
but I guess it went OK.

658
00:44:09,257 --> 00:44:14,256
# Let's come together

659
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# Let's live as one. #

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SPEAKER 5: It's very moving when they sang
cause I've only really heard them sing

661
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like in the morning
when they're walking through the house

662
00:44:27,690 --> 00:44:31,065
and never seen them out there
in front of so many people.

663
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So to do this in front of people
they've never known before,

664
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I think it was really good
for them to do that.

665
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LEAH: It seems like
the British enjoy performing

666
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and being center stage.
Singing in the group,

667
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gave us a newfound confidence.
Well, not quite all of us.

668
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The boys decided,
being in the limelight,

669
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wasn't for them.
But this week has encouraged us

670
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to do things we've never done before.
RYAN: Two, three, four.

671
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BECKY: When I first observed
and watched the dance group,

672
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I wasn't sure that it was something
I would support.

673
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I admire them for choosing
something else

674
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than being out there in a gang
and actually being a violent person.

675
00:45:12,582 --> 00:45:16,947
I think they've made a noble choice.
They've welcomed our group

676
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just like we were one of them
and I think we can learn from them

677
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in that way.
RYAN: Seven, eight.

678
00:45:24,516 --> 00:45:30,945
One, two, three, four.
(LAUGHTER)

679
00:45:31,737 --> 00:45:34,049
ANDREW: They live in the city
and I live in the country.

680
00:45:34,049 --> 00:45:38,090
They play video games
and watch TV,

681
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and I'm out in the barn,
playing with horses.

682
00:45:43,113 --> 00:45:46,551
But I think it's great that,
two people that much different

683
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can still get together
and have a blast.

684
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LEON: Hey, I've got an idea.
Now try.

685
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(LAUGHTER)

686
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SABRINA: Materialistic things,
in my life, like hair and nails,

687
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worrying about which clothes
I'm gonna wear,

688
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I've learned that,
is not really that important, anyway.

689
00:46:06,792 --> 00:46:10,087
RYAN: One, two, three.
Four, five, six, seven eight.

690
00:46:12,036 --> 00:46:15,615
LEON: I wasn't gonna do it
but I'm glad I did.

691
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I found that it kind of lift your spirit
a little it.

692
00:46:19,906 --> 00:46:24,824
I guess I'm kind of fired up, right now.
I mean (LAUGHS).

693
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TUKS: I thought that laugh
was all about money and girls,

694
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about money and...
money and girls.

695
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They've taught me that
there's more to life than that.

696
00:46:33,946 --> 00:46:37,335
BECKY: I know, I'm going to miss them.
Just there,

697
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thinking of living in the city
and, hey it actually wasn't that bad.

698
00:46:45,513 --> 00:46:48,525
LEAH: Next, we're staying
with some teenagers in Kent.

699
00:46:49,328 --> 00:46:52,747
SPEAKER: They look kinda
like they're not very clean.

700
00:46:53,019 --> 00:46:55,351
LEAH: We hear they have a love
for music.

701
00:46:56,112 --> 00:46:58,270
I guess, it was like a shock
to my body.

702
00:46:58,270 --> 00:47:03,235
My first instinct was to plug my ears
which was not a good idea (LAUGHS).

703
00:47:03,906 --> 00:47:06,017
BECKY: I think rock music
is considered evil.

704
00:47:06,311 --> 00:47:08,917
It does something to your body
that I don't really like.

705
00:47:08,917 --> 00:47:11,640
LEAH: We hope they might share
some of our values.

706
00:47:12,306 --> 00:47:15,149
When I see girls dressing in bikinis
in front of the boys,

707
00:47:15,319 --> 00:47:18,515
I'm concerned for the girls
because they don't really realize

708
00:47:18,515 --> 00:47:20,716
what kind of temptations
they are creating

709
00:47:20,885 --> 00:47:22,607
SPEAKER 9: So, you're hemish.
ANDREW: Amish.

710
00:47:22,607 --> 00:47:25,296
SPEAKER 9: Amish.
What do you do on a daily basis?

711
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ANDREW: Work.
(LAUGHTER)

712
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LEAH: And maybe we'll learn
from their beliefs too.

713
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SPEAKER 10: Jerry and Leon,
I don't like to say it

714
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but if they don't repent,
I reckon they'll be going to hell, too.

715
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(LAUGHS) Cause they drink and smoke
more than us.

716
00:47:39,964 --> 00:47:43,011
JERRY: We can't buy beer no more.
SPEAKER 11: You're looking like

717
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you've a lot, anyway.
(LAUGHTER)

718
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VOICE: Undercover with the pastors,
delivering children from evil,

719
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Dispatches: Britain's Witch Children,
tomorrow at 8:00.

720
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At 9:00 a new series of
The Hospital,

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centers first on the sexual time bomb
facing tody's teens.

722
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But next up, it's Big Brother.